Saturday, June 23, 2012

Chloe is a great big sister!

I was very worried about how Chloe would react when meeting Emery for the first time. Chloe is very possessive over us and I was worried she would lash out toward the baby, but I couldn't have been more wrong.

Chloe was at my mothers while we were in the hospital. So she didn't get to meet Emery until she was 4 days old. She came home early Monday morning while Em was still asleep so we got to spend some one on one time with Chloe since she was away from us for so long. It was nice to get that special time with her first since i missed her so much while she was gone. Then after about 2 hours, Emery woke up and we introduced them. We had Chloe sit

Chloe is so sweet to her little sister. She says hi all the time and gently rubs her head. She gets concerned when Emery starts to whimper or cry and she even shared her sacred blankie and lovie with her. When Emery is in her bassinet Chloe loves to rock it and will hold on to the edge and just stand there next to her for a long time. She even asks me to put baby in swing, then she tries pushing it (i assuming she thinks its like the swings at the. Playground that she loves so much) Chloe already knows what certain lovie is Emery's and every time she sees it she brings it to Em. Chloe has now wanted to start sitting next to me and cuddle my arm while I am nursing Emery, it's pretty cute. She has been such a cutie and good helper. I am so glad she likes her  little sister.

Friday, June 22, 2012

Emery's Birth Announcement

James took some really adorable photos of Emery. It was so hard to pick which one to put on the baby announcement, but I think this one worked out quite well. I will post the other pictures sometime soon. Just FYI, Shutterfly has some really cute cards.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

She's finally here!

As of June 14th at 7:23 pm our little family became 4 of us. Our beautiful Emery Rose graced us with her presence finally. She weighed in at 8 lbs 3 oz and 19.5 inches long. She has a ton of hair and her eyes are already turning blue. We think she looks exactly how Chloe did when she was born.

We already went to her first baby apt and she is doing great. A little jaundice in the eyes and she lost 9 ounces, but the doc said that continued nursing will fix all that. And Emery is crazy strong. During the exam, Emery was doing "push ups" and moving her head all around. She even flipped herself over from her stomach to her back. I couldn't believe it.. And at just 4 days old.

Chloe loves her and ill share more of that in another post. Right now i have to go snuggle with my new sweetie...



Saturday, June 9, 2012

The waiting game....

I am now 6 days past my due date.... And by the lack of contractions, this little one may have to be forced out! I have an induction date of June 13th. I'm trying to stay positive knowing she will come all in His perfect timing and that no one has been pregnant forever.

I started my maternity leave Monday and I've come to realize I don't know what to do with all this spare time. I'm trying to get out of the house, get some fresh air and exercise. I've cleaned the house, hung out with my sister, went shopping, visited James at work, and even worked on some crafts, but I still find myself with so much extra time. I know I should soak it up because it will definitely not be like this when Emery is here. 

The plus side of just waiting for Emery, I was able to work on some headbands with the help of my sister and mother in law. 

We also took Chloe to the park a couple of times this week. My fave so far is this park that has a beautiful nature setting with little creeks, wild flowers, and beautiful green rolling hills. They even have these awesome musical instruments for children to play like xylophones, glockenspiels, chimes and pipes. Chloe's favorite part is still the swings. She can swing for an hour and not get bored. We will actually leaving soon to go to the bay and visit another park today. I love park time!
 

I even kept Chloe out of school one day just to spend some quality mommy daughter time. It was precious. Even though being a mommy to a toddler can be stressful at times, Chloe really knows how to make my heart flutter (almost as much as her daddy). I just love her snuggles, kisses, smiles, and the way she loves to sing to herself. It's so hard to imagine that I will be able to love another child as much as I do Chloe. Although, I know it is possible, but until Emery is actually here, it's hard to see how my heart can have more room for all the love I already have and more love that will come so soon. 

Hopefully little one will be here this weekend, it would be nice to have James with me for 9 full days... and it would be nice to finally see that sweet face of Emery's and give her lots of hugs and kisses. 
Thank you everyone for your prayers!

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

40 weeks and still pregnant

Yesterday was my due date... And Emery is still snug as a bug in my belly... It doesnt seem she has plans to come out any day soon.

Thats okay i guess, since i have been battling sickness and sinus infection for 13 days now... Im sure shes just waiting until I'm better and in good enough shape to go through labor.

I have officially started maternity leave on my due date. Ive been scurrying around to various doctors appointments and trying to soak up as much time as i can with James and Chloe.

I went to the hospital saturday because i was having horrible contractions from 8 in the morning until 3 in the afternoon, but as soon as we got there, they started to die down (isn't that how it always works?) so after about 5 hours of dilation checks, contraction monitoring and walking, they sent me home. And i haven't had very many contractions since then... I know she'll comr in God's perfect timing, but i am definitely over it.

As you can see i haven't exactly kept up with the old blog, writing nor reading... Im sure that will change when I'm home with the baby. Thank you to all the people who have been checking in on me, I really appreciate it!

Being overdue and sick is a horrible combination, please pray for a super quick recovery. The doctors said they will induce me on the 13th if shes not made her appearance yet, so that only gives me 8 days to get in tip top shape!

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Placenta Encapsulation

WARNING: POST NOT FOR PEOPLE WHO EASILY GET QUEASY OR CRINGE AT THE WORD "PLACENTA".....


I went to a wedding on Sunday where the grooms mother was a pretty well known Doula. She had many other doulas attending the wedding and helping out throughout the night. I was approached by many of these doulas, with tummy rubs and birthing questions. One of the doulas mentioned placenta encapsulation and told me I should really look into it. 

At work, there are 3 of us ladies who sit next to each other, all of us pregnant. It has been fun talking about babies and births and questions of what's to come. We have all mentioned placenta eating before and were making fun of it and joking about it. So I mention it to the ladies as I came into work on Monday and we all immediately started looking into it. As it turns out, there are MANY benefits to it...

So I have decided to try it out. Yes, I will be one of those "hippies" that will in some form or another digest my placenta. But before you judge, take a look into the benefits and you may be surprised what you find. I have included some info on it below and included links to where I have looked up info (although this doesn't really show just how many websites I visited today to research on this... I probably spent a good 4 hours on this). I will be participating in what they call "placenta encapsulation". 

I have decided to create my own placenta pills. I would have a doula do this, but the cost is $250 starting and I don't have enough time between now and when the baby comes sometime in the next two weeks (or any day now for that matter) to save up the money to do so. So, James mom has graciously said yes to helping me create these pills (thank you so much!!!) and hopefully I will be able to reap the benefits of the afterbirth (still creeps me out to say it). 

Placenta Encapsulation: "Whereby the placenta is completely dried, ground and placed into empty capsules for ingestion. The dehydration process preserves the placenta, allowing the mother to benefit from it for weeks postpartum." - Placenta Benefits.info

Benefits: Because the placenta comes from your own natural hormones, it is already in tune with what your body needs. Supposed benefits include: replenishing depleted iron, providing energy, help to lessen postnatal bleeding, increase milk supply, quicker uterus shrinking, balance emotionally and help with post partum depression. If you freeze and save your pills, you can even use them during menopause.  - Placenta encapsulation San Diego
"The capsules are beneficial for any stressful transition. Having to leave the baby to go back to work, a job loss in the family, or a move can cause stress that can be helped with placenta capsules. Since the capsules also help with fatigue and milk production, they can be taken any time the mother feels worn down or needs to increase milk supply." - Placenta Benefits.info

How to create placenta pills: (warning: these are graphic, with pictures!)


I'll let you know how it goes. I might or might not be participating on creating the actual pills, depending on how long I will be in the hospital. But I will let you know how the actual pill making turns out and how I feel when taking them. 






Monday, May 21, 2012

38 weeks!

I feel like i am about to pop! My tummy is much bigger than it looks in the pictures... (Black is slimming) the baby has dropped and is sitting pretty low now. I cant cross my legs when sitting and she loves to kick my bladder. I feel like i just have to pee every single time i stand up! I have been having mild contractions here and there, but nothing to make me think the baby will be here any minute. I am really hoping that emery come 5/27 that way her and Chloe are exactly 1.5 years apart and so i can remember their birthdays easier. Haha

This baby sure is making me tired though and her kicks and jabs are starting to become unwelcome... But at least shes moving, so i cant really complain. I am just at that "SO OVER IT" stage and cant wait to meet her.

On a GREAT note... I no longer have placenta previa!!! Thank you so much for all your prayers! God is my healer and he had given me peace no matter what the outcome of the ultrasound would have been... But I'm not gonna lie, it was awesome to hear the technician say that the placenta has moved and it was "no where near" the cervix. Such great news after the placenta hadn't moved at all for over 10 weeks and in just a little over a month it had moved so much.

Speaking of placentas... More on that in my next post.

Music Monday- Generation Unleashed

This band is from Generation Unleashed , a youth ministry of City Bible Church. We play there songs at worship for church a lot. And since James is on the worship team, I hear these songs a lot.






Monday, May 14, 2012

Music Monday - 10th Avenue North

This band makes some beautiful Christian music. 
There lyrics are encouraging and remind me how just how much God really loves me. 


I like that this video shows the "washing away" of the sins listed on the blackboard behind them.





These songs are not my fave by them, but it's hard to find official music videos for them...





Thursday, May 10, 2012

Money Savings Tips

James and I have been cutting cost left and right,especially after taking the financial peace classes, which we recommend EVERYONE to take, whether you are currently in debt or not. We also are saving up for my maternity leave pay cut and our big move. We have helped tons of family and friends get on the right track financially and I thought I would offer some advice as to what works for us. Keep in mind, this might not work for everyone, below is just what our family does to keep cost down.

Here are some tips that we have used to help us get more financially fit.
1. WRITE A BUDGET. This is the most important thing to do. Have your budget written out and planned ahead of time. Even if your paychecks are sporadic, writing down bills that need to be paid, there typical monthly cost and the time they are due will help keep you on track. Seeing how much you pay for things might get you to notice some overspending that you haven't seen before. Our class taught us to first keep receipts of everything we do for one month. Then create categories such as food, clothing, shelter, utilities, entertainment, auto, etc... and add up how much you spent in each category. Then figure out where you can slim down on. I keep our budget on an excel time sheet that has hidden formulas. That way if our checks ever vary, I just have to put in the check amount and it will change everything else according to. I plan our whole year in advance with our budget so that way we can plan adequately for family vacations, etc...

2. ENVELOPE SYSTEM. Allocate where each dollar is going every paycheck. James and I have been doing this for 3 years now and we have saved thousands of dollars. We never realized how much we were spending on random things until we did this. We even have an envelope for spur of the moment items. Once the money you allocated for the paycheck runs out, you stop spending. It helped us get our priorities straight as to what we really want to spend our money on. This system has helped us save money for tattoos, a laptop and a camera. Talk about savings! We started out using the cash method in the envelopes, but after we got ourselves on track and in habit of only spending what is in our envelopes, we now use our debit card.  I created card stock cards that have a register for each envelope we used to have and subtract what we spend immediately so it still keeps us in check on what amounts we are using and when to stop. It also helps if we forget our envelopes at home and makes me feel better knowing I am not carrying around so much cash. Although, I would suggest doing the cash only method first to really help instill the habit.

3. STOP PAYING FOR CABLE. James and I haven't had cable in 3 years and we have never regretted it. We only have internet and it really is pretty much the same thing. We used to subscribe to NETFLIX for $9.99 a month and it had almost all the television shows we would want to watch, with NO commercials and are on watch instantly, so  you won't have to wait for the shows to be put on dvd. We actually, cut the cost of Netflix too and just watch shows on Hulu or shows that are posted on the broadcasters wesbites. Now it takes about a week until after the show has aired to post it, but we don't have the time to watch shows very often, so it doesn't really matter to us. We will wait until 2-3 episodes are available and just watch them back to back. As far as getting news from cable, all important news information can be found on the internet. This saves us about $50 a month.

4. BUY IN BULK. Buying certain foods or items in bulk, especially frozen foods can help save tons in the long run. 
James and I buy bulk frozen meats that last a month, which ends up being cheaper per pound. We separate the meat into the appropriate proportions before we put into the freezer. We buy toilet paper, napkins, paper towels, etc. in bulk too. We also buy the big packages of items we go through fast, like cheese. We used to do one HUGE shopping trip once a month or every three weeks and purchased a lot of frozen food or canned items. However, James and I wanted to start eating healthier and incorporate more fresh food items into our diet. We now go to the grocery store once a week or every week and a half on our way home from work to purchase fresh fruit and veggies. We found that going more often and buying less quantity at a time (for items that have a short shelf life) saved us from throwing out food that would spoil quickly. We had gone through a lot of bad bananas before we finally decided to try to go more often and it has been great every since. Try to not buy any more food items (except the necessities of milk, bread, eggs, etc..) until your pantry is pretty close to gone. That way there is not certain items that are forgotten and wasted. This strategy also helps you become creative with your food items to create new dishes from the same items and can be fun. Also, Make sure you write a list and STICK TO IT! This can save you TONS on spur of the moment items. Costco has been an awesome investment for us. Sure it's 50 bucks up front, but it has saved us so much money overall, it has been well worth it for us.

5. QUIT THE GYM! I had to cancel my gym membership long ago because we needed the money and I never found time to go anymore. There are plenty of things to do outside. San Diego has the best weather year round to go running, play sports, and do any other outside activity. We should live it up! Find new places like different parks that you could walk to and spend a day there playing with your pets and kids or get your friends together for a game of capture the flag. Try walking to places that are close to you, a 10 minute walk here and there really adds up! I have saved $30 a month not going to the gym. Plus, being outside is so invigorating. And if you live in an area where weather is bad, make a fun game of tag with the kids or have fun doing an exercise or dance video inside the house. We put on music and dance around the house, it's tons of fun.

6. CUT DOWN ON CELL PHONE USAGE. We use to have a 2 separate plans totally about $150. We got a new plan together as a family and started sharing less amount of minutes and cut our texting down from unlimited. We also shopped around for the best plan.  Use the internet to email and catch up, many people have a Facebook or Twitter account where you can catch up on as well. This has saved us at least $50 a month.

7. BUY ON CLEARANCE AND USE COUPONS. James and I won't usually go out to eat unless we have coupons and we always check the ads BEFORE we go grocery shopping. When I go shopping for clothes or home decor, I always hit the clearance and sales racks first. I shop at outlet or discount stores like ROSS. I found satin sheet sets for our queen bed for $13! I mainly shop online and when I do, I always scout the internet for coupon codes before purchasing. I usually use Retail Me Not for coupon codes.  I typically don't buy things unless they are on sale. I also don't purchase clothes unless I am really in love with it. The reason being is because I will buy it then I will wear it once or twice then forget about it or find something that I don't like about it and it will just sit there in my closet, wasting space and money.



8. CRAIGSLIST. We are huge advocates of buying,selling and trading locally. Especially our big ticket items. You never know who may be selling something exactly or pretty close to what you are looking for at a fraction of the cost. And you are helping keep that item from a landfill and helping the planet out, go you! We have bought and sold numerous things on Craigslist, mainly furniture. We like to frequent Ikea a lot and find things we want then search for weeks to find them on Craigslist. 90% of the time we get the same item on Craigslist. Also, don't forget that you can also re purpose items. You can find something that is okay, but pretty cheap and then repaint it, or re upholster it and voile, it looks pretty awesome and new.  Just be willing to put a little elbow grease into  it. Then you can take the money you would have spent on the brand new version and go on a date or something. :)


9. RESELL UNUSED/UNWANTED ITEMS. I  make sure to try and sell clothes that I haven't worn in 3 or 4 months (depending on if it is weather related) so that way I can make more space for new items and use the money I sell my older clothes for to buy new ones, then it is like an even exchange. :) When we want to get something new, that we don't absolutely need but really want, we see if there are things in our house that we do not use/want anymore and see if we can resell it to put that money toward what we want. For instance, we want to make a play area for Chloe on our little side porch, so we are selling our grill and outside bench that we hardly ever use on craigslist and using that money to purchase a kitchenette set for her with a toy grocery cart and a little table set (which we will look for on craigslist, btw).  We like to decrease the clutter at our house so we try to stick with the advice of take one leave one, or in this case, buy something and get rid of something. 


10. REMEMBER YOU DON'T ALWAYS NEED IT. James and I love cool vintage things. And modern things as well. And woodland things. And 50's style things. and and... tons of stuff. Just because we like all this super cool stuff, doesn't necessarily mean that we need it. We use to collect tons of stuff like house decor and had shelves and shelves of eclectic cool things. However, just because we like it doesn't mean that it needs to be ours. We have learned to appreciate something, even love something (take a picture and put it as your backdrop on your phone or computer kinda love) and not end up taking it home with us. It also helps with the decreased clutter and saving money.


11. FIND THINGS TO DO FOR FREE. Seriously, people say this all the time. But there are so many things you can do around your city that cost you nothing. Go explore! Look for new parks you haven't visited yet. Look on your city website to see if there are street fairs coming to town. Go to the farmers market just to browse and be outdoors. Find a new hiking trail, ride your bike. Go on a picnic. I know in San Diego, you can visit various websites that show free things to do in SD. They also have Family magazine (the free magazine that you can pick up practically anywhere) and it also list free things to do in your city. Take a walk downtown or become a tourist in your own city and go site seeing! 


12. HAVE FUN MONEY. James and I make sure to save about $20 (it used to be more before we really started going low for the savings for maternity leave) every paycheck just to have fun with. Whether it be for a date night or for a new dvd that just came out that we want. You need to be able to enjoy your money and have some fun as well as be responsible and save. Fun money is what has kept us from going insane when we have a strict budget. It is what helps us actually get through knowing all our money is already allotted to go somewhere else before we even touch it. 


James and I find creative ways to save money. We try hard to stay away from using our credit card and we are really working on being strong enough to say no to things we want but don't need. You really have to stay in the mindset that material things don't always make you happy. It's hard to cut back on everything at once, so take it step by step, little by little and you'll be able to do it. As long as you stick to it, it will become a habit and you will be able to save more money in the long run (meaning actually going on your dream vacation you always wanted!)

Anyways, hope this helps at least one of you readers!






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